The bar exam can be an emotionally intense experience.
We all need a witness to our struggles. Don’t keep it locked up inside you. Sharing the ups and downs can be cathartic.
Jonathan took the time to send me a raw, heartfelt story of what it was like to fail…and then PASS the 2024 July CA Bar Exam.
💬 “When I found out I did not pass the bar, I was devastated; I let down myself and seemingly my family, my girlfriend, mentors, and everyone who had invested in me — how would I recover from this professionally and personally?”
Repeaters will know about the devastation and the identity crisis that comes with failing the bar exam.
Am I being dramatic?
Maybe. Regardless, if you don’t pass, there’s suddenly a ton of uncertainty and volatility about your future.
Choose resilience, or give up. It’s up to you.
💬 “Over my time re-studying for the exam, two thoughts persisted:
‘No…no, this is not how my story ends! I am not a failure or a quitter… I’ve never quit and why would I do it now? No…I have more in the tank’; and
the other was, ‘what if this repeats again…is it better to just take the foot off the gas? There are many people who understand how difficult this exam is…maybe I should use my degree for something adjacent.’ And then it hit me . . .”
How did he finally overcome the past that haunted him so?
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